Questions for Days

Today is great day for asking questions.. Free some space in that cluttered mind from time to time. Let me start one for you… How come the most admirable ppl tend to be victimized? Is it bc they stand for something? Is it jealousy or envy? Things worth questioning.  It seems a lot of ppl that stand on their own two feet willingly, end up being attacked 🤣🤣🤣. The series of unfortunate events aren’t funny, but there is some slapstick humor in it for sure. Ik you have some pending questions you been dying to get answers on… knock them out!!! There is no such thing as a dumb question and I will stand by that statement. Just bc someone is having an emotional reaction to your questions doesn’t mean it’s dumb. So never be too timid to ask anything. It proves that you care! So many ppl overlook the intent. Listen… Before we can receive more knowledge, we must make sense of what we know already. Otherwise you will sound like one intellectual dumb ass. Make experiences out of these questions. Find results before adding false narratives on how you perceive things… this is why I take pride in speaking with elders or ppl with cultural differences other than myself. Everyone has a piece of the puzzle to answering your questions. Most times you need restorative information to understand more. When asking a question… don’t just look for the answer. Try to understand why and how. It will do you some good! Free your mind!!!!

” it’s a lot to learn out there, go out and get it”

Solid as a Rock

Ppl love to image themselves after being solid as a rock.  Most ppl earn that status not by choice. If anything, aspire to get through life with the least amount of bouts as possible. Hard times make you tough but not in the manner you would think. There is a lot you gain but lose in the process as well. I’m trying to hold on to the good attributes of me, not lose them. Be strategic in how you move. A lot of trauma comes with being hardened and you gradually remove yourself from healthy spaces mentally & sometimes physically.  I think this message is flowing over a lot of ppl heads and that’s fine too. The replay value on these MM are Heavy! Anyways… Enjoy life to the fullest. Be mindful of what you do and have a great wk👍🏾

“Stop making fun of people trying to actively better themselves”

Melodies cure the Soul

Pain outweighs victory, if you let it. I have been through some heavy stuff lately. Lot of things I can’t even describe. One thing is for certain… every morning I wake up.. do my morning routine (listen to a few melodies).. and strive to do something productive.. You got to have a tenacious spirit in order to keep going. Do you have one? I imagine you do, if you have been reading these motivational Mondays every wk 🙂. Let today & this week be a celebration 🍾 for staying on course. Be grateful! Be thankful! Be Happy! Laughter kills pain! We are all living legends in our own way. Remember that! You may not believe it but someone close or far away looks up to you. If doing it for yourself is not enough… then do it for the ppl that admire you! If you can’t think of anyone in particular… just know you mean the world to someone out there! You are a living legend & no amount of time can change that! Fight through the pain 💪🏾

“Don’t chase greatness,  it comes from within”

Humble

Hard Times are guaranteed. I’ll say it again… Hard times are guaranteed. No need to panic or be on the defense. You will eventually learn subtle ways on building awareness. No matter how much you prepare for things… you just never know what cards will be dealt on the table. This is why life is so thrilling!  Get comfortable with expecting the unexpected (good & bad). This is how our elders became so poised. Years and years of experiences will do that to you. There is a lot of growth in hard times. Don’t let it break you (don’t give up)… Always approach things as an opportunity to learn. I’m aware it’s Easier said than done. Just take this Motivational Monday as a message for light being present at the end of every tunnel. Keep your head up and don’t stress about it.  Feel those emotions… Release those emotions… Nurse yourself back to health. Keep Going! I wish you well ✌🏾

“Learn to humble yourself, your life will become less stressful”

Wreckless Abandonment

I cant stress this enough… it is very fundamental to fix yourself before providing input or assistance to others. It’s easy being a dirt bag, but can you maintain being a stand up individual? 🤣🤣🤣 It’s a harsh fact! Don’t get ppl or yourself involved with anything if you know you can’t meet those expectations.  I can’t stress that enough.  I see this happen way too often and experience it as well. This is the epitome of throwing dirt on your own name.  Congratulations! You lost credibility in what you represent.

When you finally decide to accept that level of responsibility… Apply yourself! Stop cutting corners and choose the more challenging route. Those efforts will be reciprocated tenfold by being fundamentally sound as a professional, family member, friend, lover, etc.  Now Go out there & be great ✌🏾

“Instead of being a “what can you do for me” person… What can you do for self?”