Stay on course

Alright.. listen good… whatever you’re doing, don’t let anyone stop that momentum. Unless you’re asking for advice or assistance.  If unwanted opinions or statements are coming at you? You should already have a plan on dealing with that. Nobody can see your vision but YOU! Even the most articulate individuals are unable to demonstrate their visions. Because… most of the time they have no clue themselves, lol. Everything is subject to change and who is to say it doesn’t change for the better? The best thing in life is life. More importantly… HOPE!!! Gotta have hope to keep the momentum going! Everything starts and ends with YOU. Enjoy the wk ✌🏾

“The best thing in LIFE is LIFE”

Stop Trolling

It’s time to get back to the vision/plan/dream/mission/objective. Clarity… what keeps you focused? Is it the naysayers? Is it legacy? Is it fear of failure? Is it monetary items? Nothing can be decided unless you KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. We have too many ppl out here, pursuing the same thought/idea and the window has been closed for quite a long time. We need to start being more honest with ourselves in order to pursue happiness. Clarity… why continue to hold on to things when the approach hasn’t changed? This is why you have the merry-go-round experience with everything. We are creatures of habit and if you can’t identify your own faults,  how can we really progress?
Example) I will have the career of my dreams someday. 10 yrs later… yeah! I’m pursuing that! I will get there one day (age 40+).

At this point,  the career should have been dumped and moved on by now, lol. All I’m saying is that ppl are trolls, Respectfully. We hold onto things way longer than we should with understandable reasoning sometimes 🙃. However, if we can’t get things right… we should proceed looking forward to something new. This is how we maintain happiness folks!!! Fixing our approach and knowing when the dynamics have shifted. Drop the BS and get your life. I’m tired of seeing ppl in the same shoes that I wore back when I met them in first grade (metaphor). Live life & Be well ✌🏾

“Treat life like a game & you will get played”

Self-evaluation

Strength 💪🏾!!! Where do you get it from? Does having strength (mental toughness) matter to you? We should always understand what keeps us moving forward. Nobody is a waste of space despite what anyone says about your dreams and aspirations (might be broken but not a waste). Sometimes we withold our plans b/c we are not in the right environment for us to truly grow. I understand that everyone’s situation is unique. “You should not be in any situation that prohibits you from thinking or acting freely”…  If only that statement was truly plausible, lol. We are always in situations where we will be challenged or limited. You need mental toughness to keep pushing forward. Imagine putting your plans/progress on hold b/c you’re afraid of what others might think. How conducive that can be to your demise.
I remember when a friend was so anxious about acting. Like, they would talk about it indirectly… But when I tell you about the actions??? ☠☠☠ The actions were clear as day!!! I did what any other great friend would do… push them off the cliff 🤣🤣🤣.  If it works? You win! If you don’t succeed? At least you fought through it until it YOU had enough. I love them for standing up for themselves and choosing to stick with it after all this time.  That is the price of chasing dreams + admiration. We take personal risks in return of rewards. So it doesn’t really matter if you fail. You still won because now you know what’s on the other side.

Love on yourself ppl. Understand that you will always have room for being misunderstood in every way shape or form. Nobody can change that but time and experience (not your job). Stop second guessing your decisions and keep going. Others can understand now or learn to respect it later. Having a Great support system with a whole lot of confidence in your own capabilities… Now that is real strength!

“Don’t let YOU get in the way of YOU”

Move something

Key part to growing up is cycling through deffered dreams. Only you & the man above know why things happen the way it did. So what if things did not pan out exactly how you wanted it to go, dont let it define you. Why? Because it’s not reality.  Could have…. Should have… is more like… Never have… I think it’s time for you to move forward to salvage whatever else is left on the table for you. It might be a gateway to more than anything you ever anticipated. Imagine a table the size of your whole bedroom and you’re simple stuck on not being abled to eat one grape that fell on the floor.  The only way to move forward is by letting the old things wither away (label those things as trash please). Depression will keep you in a endless cycle if you let it. Stand up for yourself and know the best has yet to come for you. Act on it & start believing my friend. I believe in you! Go out there and get yours!!! Enjoy the wk ✌🏾

“Chances don’t make Champions, opportunities do”